Love is a beautiful thing. When you find love, it’d be as though you've discovered a long lost better self, or extension of your very self. True love with the right person is as though you've discovered someone you’d rather die for than see fall ill or feel pain, someone you’d rather starve for than see go hungry. However when the relationship hits the road and the affections and feelings is less intense, and the truth about his characters begins to manifest, many might begin to feel like they are in the wrong ship or that this captain is slashing every iota of freedom they used to enjoy as a single person.
To be frank, there is no such thing as absolute freedom. In a relationship, you can’t assume absolute liberty at the expense of your partner. It is understandable that when you are in a relationship with someone who loves you dearly, he’d move mountains and make sacrifices just to see you shine. It is understandable that when you are in a relationship with this person, you might feel that your freedom is limited, that because he loves you the swirl of jealousy from him makes you adjust the normalcy of your schedule, removing events and things you’re used to and entertaining certain duties you never thought you’d entertain.
The truth however is that to an extent jealousy is a good indicator. Jealousy itself has its bad side; it has caused many heartbreaks, pushed many into depression, locked many in the silent, isolated and grave corridors of psychiatric homes, and is advised by experts like myself to be an indicator to not love the individual, and is a reason why you should run away from this partner. Don’t get me wrong, a measure of jealousy is good. It is an indicator that you are loved and cherished, however, one must be careful as to what degree of jealousy is been displayed.
What are the advantages of loving a jealous partner
1. Exclusive love:
When a man sincerely loves you and begins to exhibit the signs of jealousy, be certain that he loves you and loves you exclusively, evident in the way he stops other people from approaching you or his wanting to be close to you at all times. Even though he can love you without exhibiting signs of jealousy, be sure that this is indicative to the fact that he loves you and does not want to share that love that he has for you with someone else; that he also don't expect you to share the love you have for him with someone else.
2. More outing :
A jealous partner will always want you to be with him all the time. He does not care what your schedule is or what the situation you find your in. He might excuse you on the condition that you have to get a job or have to do some personal stuffs. However one of the ways of escape a jealous partner has is you been with him all the time. He don’t mind you both going to the same job or worashiping at the same church. At least you know your life is on him because him taking you along with him means he feeding you and providing comfort for you with every other neccesities, just to make you feel comfortable.
3. Cheating:
Once you are with hom all the time, be certain that you have for yourself a honest and faithful partner, after all he’d have to be a psycho to cheat on you to your face, and still express undiluted love to you, assuming he is a jealous boyfriend and don’t want some very handsome guys to come close to you. If he alsways want you around him, be sure that he cant be cheating on you, be sure that you have with you a faithful man, to have and to hold till death do you pass.
4. No work:
Most jealous partner wants to keep you out of the sight of men or men that they consider threats to their sovereignty. Theyw ant to do this as much as possible, danm the consequences. When a jealous partner marries you, he wants to keep you at home, not working, as a full house wife, taking care of the house, the kids, the kitchen nd doing menial chores. If you lack humongous ambition nd hate to work, congratulations this is your man. He will want to be your absolute source so you wioll have no reason to look out or pursue another man.
5. You’re in trouble :
If you enjoy all these and still feel pained, or if you go through the relationship and feel you are suffering more than the fun part of living with a jealous boyfriend, then know for sure that youa re in trouble and that the only way out is to run as far as possible from him
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